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How well I listen

Listening is not silence. This is about what you do while someone else talks.

25 statements, about 4 minutes

What the result will show

Attention where your attention is while someone talks
Clarifying asking again instead of filling in the blanks
Patience letting people finish when the point seems obvious
Holding advice asking whether advice is wanted before giving it
Remembering whether what was said stays with you

Start The first statement opens straight away — no sign-in, no email.

1I put my phone away during a conversation

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

2My mind drifts while someone is talking to me

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

3I look at the person while they speak

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

4I multitask while people talk to me

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

5I notice when someone finds it hard to speak

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

6I check whether I understood correctly

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

7I fill in the blanks instead of asking

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

8I ask questions rather than only stating my view

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

9I ask for an example when I do not follow

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

10I feel awkward admitting I did not understand

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

11I interrupt when the point seems obvious to me

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

12I let people finish even when I am in a hurry

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

13Long stories irritate me

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

14I wait while someone searches for words

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

15I do not hurry people with looks or gestures

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

16I ask first whether advice is wanted

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

17I start solving before I have heard it all

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

18I can just listen without offering anything

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

19I turn the talk to a similar story of my own

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

20I notice when support is needed, not a solution

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

21I remember what we talked about last time

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

22I forget requests made to me out loud

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

23I come back to what mattered to the person

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

24I remember details of other people’s stories

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

25I have to ask again about names and details

Not me at all Rarely me Sometimes Often me That is exactly me

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